Saturday 28 February 2015

Post Number 28 - The Journey to Sydney

We have been in NSW now for 10 days and we are more than ready to go home and be reunited with our little man.  The trip has been expensive yet incredible, eye opening, confidence building, inspirational, healing, learning, gratifying and filled with giving and receiving love.

Our journey began last Thursday when we dropped Sebastian at school and hugged him goodbye.  Emotions held back until we bid goodbye to Mark's family and boarded our plane to Sydney.  We were a little apprehensive and yet confident that we had made the right choices and we were about to embark on a special adventure..

Once we touched down, we used public transport to get to the CBD and then out to North Sydney.  At Chatswood station, our "Airbnb" hosts picked us up and took us to their amazing home.  It was a long journey, but we made it and we were pleased and proud of our achievements.

The next morning our hosts cooked us a special breakfast and then took us directly to the Chinese Doctor, waited over an hour for us to be finished and then brought us home again. We couldn’t believe just how generous these wonderful people where to us.  The appointment went well and a treatment plan was arranged and the acupuncture started.  Mark also had a session with the Chinese Physiotherapist who taught him some Chi Gong which he is to do twice a day to help move blood and lymph around the body as well as stimulate the immune system in between treatments.

 Another two treatments were completed before we left Sydney to head to the countryside, in the direction of Canberra, to begin our "Quest for Life" retreat/workshop.  By now we had begun getting quite comfortable with using the public transport system as our hosts couldn’t possibly take us to every appointment.  We purchased prepaid cards and felt comfortable getting around, especially when using "phone apps" that map out the routes and provide up to date timetables.

The train ride to Bundanoon  was peaceful, smooth and very enjoyable.  We ate our lunch, read books and the two hour ride flew by.  Again we were picked up at the station and taken to the retreat, which was literally only 100 metres away.  I had felt anxious all day and once arriving at the retreat, my anxiety levels peaked and I wanted to run away. 

We were shown to our room and left to settle in, the program starting in 2 hours.  I couldn’t explain why I felt so uncomfortable, but somehow I felt overwhelmed with uncontrollable emotion.

Words can't explain the experience we had at Bundanoon, but I can say that layers of ourselves were slowly peeled away and we uncovered our true selves.  We shared a special bond with the most amazing people and we learned how to love and trust in ourselves. We learnt about the physiology of the body and how we can make positive changes to the chemistry in our body through meditation and living in the present.  This week has been one of those pivotal moments you have in life.  A time when you are faced with a crossroad and you choose the path you wish to take and commit to it.  Life will be different now and it will take work, dedication and commitment, but the result is and will continue to be rewarding, fulfilling and give peace to what would otherwise be a traumatic time.
We now feel so happy, so fulfilled and ready to face whatever comes next.  Mark has been so very well the entire time we have been away. He has been sleeping well, sometimes better than me and every day has been a mini marathon either physically or emotionally, but he has handled it all with smiles, enthusiasm  and optimism.  And now, we just want to get home and hug our boy until we all fall down…and then hug him some more.  He has faced his own challenges, but just like his father, he has handled them with the grace of a boy far greater than his years.

The future now looks different, regardless of diagnosis and we will continue this journey in the knowledge that every day is special and every day is a gift.
 
If you would like to know more about Quest for Life and the incredible work they do, or you would like to make a donation, please visit; http://www.questforlife.com.au/
 

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